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So you may now
find yourself wondering, "What exactly is Jim talking about here?"
The best real estate
salespeople know how to guide their clients step-by-step from wherever they are
right now to where the agent ideally wants them to be. Some real estate
salespeople are conscious of how they do this and others are doing it
unconsciously. However, the vast majority of real estate salespeople are not
even aware that they can learn to influence their clients and prospects at the
unconscious level.
When one studies the
arena within the field of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) that focuses on
language patterns you become very aware of how the language that we use
influences people. Many, many real estate agents unconsciously say things during
their presentations with clients and prospects that completely kill many listing
and deal opportunities. And these agents continue to be completely unaware of
what they are doing that is hurting their own business.
Have you ever observed
someone who was very successful in real estate sales but you had no idea why?
When I first began my career in real estate I worked with a man who had been in
the real estate business for many years. He didn't understand what the fair
market value of the properties in his area was and he was completely unaware of
the properties that were currently on the market in his territory at any given
moment in time. However, he knew how to influence people, and he did it through
the hypnotic language patterns of NLP. He was a former hypnotherapist and he
understood how to eliminate resistance in clients and prospects by putting them
into trance with the language patterns he used. I even found myself frequently
going into trance when I would hear this man speak. I finally decided that I had
to stay away from him in the office if I wanted to get any work done because my
mind would be useless after talking with him for several minutes.
After eliminating
resistance in his clients he would then move the clients from a trancelike state
to a state of excitement about whatever deal he was presenting them. And I still
can't
believe how much property he sold while working with so few people! He was so
focused and relentless in his approach, enabling him to melt even the strongest,
most stubborn people imaginable.
I first observed this
man almost 20 years ago and at the time I had no idea what he was doing. I don't
even believe that he consciously understood what he was doing. But he had
learned how to utilize the language patterns from his hypnotherapy days
extremely effectively in his real estate career.
This technology is
extremely powerful and must be utilized with the utmost of integrity and care.
It definitely takes study and practice to perfect the use of this technology and
utilize it in your day-to-day life. However, once you have accomplished this,
the sky is the limit in terms of how easily you will influence people. When Corporate America understands how much more powerful this technology is than
traditional sales training they will drop everything and begin having all of
their salespeople trained in this technology. That's how powerful this stuff is.
Some agents have asked
me if I would conduct a series of classes to teach them this technology. Perhaps
if enough people express an interest in this I will do this either live and in-person or
in a telephone seminar format. |